Ashley and Jon Oliver met in New York City a decade ago, when she was preparing to go to medical school at Columbia University and he was working as a D.J. They got used to tight living quarters in the city, and then in San Francisco, where Dr. Oliver completed her residency in anesthesiology at the University of California-San Francisco.
In 2022, with two young sons now in the mix, the couple debated their next move: perhaps Ohio or Alabama, where they had family and where single-family homes would be more affordable. They compiled spreadsheets and shared notes galore on potential homes around the country, and how they might afford them.
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“It was always, if we go to those places we can buy a house, but the thought was if we go back to New York, live in San Francisco or in L.A., I don’t know, maybe not,” said Mr. Oliver, 48.
In the end, they decided to stay in California and head south to Los Angeles, where she got a faculty position at UCLA and he could pursue a career in audio mixing and mastering.
The couple began going to open houses for fun, looking for a friendly neighborhood with plenty of places to walk and play, and for a home with enough space to host family and friends, and for Dr. Oliver to set up a home office.
The plan was to wait and save more money for a larger down payment. “But instead we were coerced by friends of Jon’s who own in View Park to meet with their realtor,” said Dr. Oliver, 42. “We did, and were won over by her confidence and charisma.”
It was Erica Carter Walden, an agent with Compass, who warned the couple that, even with their budget of around $1.3 million, inventory was low and prices were high as sellers touted their recent renovations. But she always tells her clients not to get discouraged too soon in the process.
“I said, ‘Your house is out there, you got to go out and look for it,” Ms. Carter Walden said. “Your house will find you, and when you get that house you will be so in love with it you will forget about all of the frogs you kissed before.”
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