Living in New York had long been a dream for Veronica Pessino, but something — usually school or work — always kept her in California, most recently in San Diego.
Two summers ago, Ms. Pessino, now 34, took a trip to the city and realized she couldn’t hold off anymore. She wanted to make the move. “I have felt at home in New York since I started coming to New York when I was 18,” she said.
“It’s now or never,” she recalled thinking.
The tricky part: She also wanted Esteban Selaya, whom she had only recently started dating, to come with her. And he had never been to New York City.
“I realized that we’d been dating for nine months, and I was asking him to move across the country to a place that he’d never been, so I would have understood if he didn’t,” Ms. Pessino said. “But I wanted him to come.”
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That fall, the couple came for a closer look: dinner at a jazz club, a stand-up show with his favorite comedian, world-class pizza. He was sold.
“It’s a big decision,” said Mr. Selaya, 33, who had lived in Southern California his entire life and works as an engineering manager for Toast, the restaurant-management software company. “I kind of figured maybe I should try living somewhere else. And then, somewhere also so different.”
In 2023, they drove across the country with their three cats — Hyperion, Zeus and Kuzco — and landed in an Airbnb studio on the Upper East Side. From there, they found a one-bedroom rental near Hudson Yards, but after learning that the rent would soon increase, they started looking for a new place.
Buying wasn’t in the picture until Ms. Pessino, who has a doctorate in biophysics and is a founding partner of the data-analytics start-up Plinth, began helping a friend look for listings online. As a lover of the arts, she homed in on the Lincoln Center area, crunched the numbers and realized that buying was an option.
After an initial visit to a listing — Ms. Pessino pitched it as a date to Mr. Selaya — she jumped into “overdrive” and contacted the agent who was helping her friend.
“Veronica and Esteban were amazing clients, not only because they were super motivated, but they were organized, they were moving quickly,” said Connor Cuccinelli, an agent with the Noble Black & Partners team at Douglas Elliman. “And it just led to a super-simple transaction.”
The couple set a budget of around $800,000 and planned to split the purchase. They wanted a place with at least one bedroom, a dishwasher, no carpeting and space for the three cats, in a relatively small, quiet building. Also on the wish list: an open floor plan with an updated kitchen that had a gas range, as Mr. Selaya likes to cook, and proximity to Central Park.
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