“I used restorative justice to allow healing and accountability and growth with the other person,” the Pride & Prejudice actress went on. “It was a hard process but one I believe truly helped me move thru some of the hardest parts of the grief.”
She also detailed her healing process in another reply on Instagram, noting that she “did a lot of online research” and would one day “try and write out the process I used” when she’s ready.
“What lead me there was feeling not held by ‘outing’ someone using the traditional cancel like culture that has been created,” she said. “I also don’t fully see how the criminal justice system could fully repair my healing, though I do believe it can help in many ways. It all lead me to using restorative justice, basically a system of repairing harm, to speak to the other party involved and make requests of my healing journey and really just be heard.”
Noting that the method “wasn’t perfect” and that she could’ve “used the help of the many teachers out there who practice restorative justice in mediation settings,” Jena recalled feeling like she “needed to do it alone.”
In another comment that stated, “Fellow survivor here that loves you,” Jena sent a heartfelt message back.
“love you,” she wrote. “Happy to call you sister.”
